True Partnership in Marriage isn't a myth, it's a choice...

and it starts with you!

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Let's make sure you have all the tools & support you need to set your relationship up for true partnership

You're craving more from your relationship, but you're not sure how to get there.

You’re carrying the weight of your relationship. You see the issues, but your partner thinks everything is fine.

You’re trying to talk to your partner about your concerns, only to be met with dismissiveness or defensiveness.

You’re walking on eggshells, asking yourself is this the right time to bring this up or did I use too harsh of a tone?

You’re wondering if your expectations are reasonable. Especially if you’re with a good on paper partner who is working hard to provide financially and there for the kids.

You feel embarrassed when you think about how smart and accomplished you are, then compare that to how helpless you feel in your marriage.

You don’t know whether you should walk away or let him lead– not loving how either of those options reflect how you want your relationship to work.

You want more from your partnership, but it’s easier to do things yourself, so you’re defaulting into an unbalanced dynamic regularly.

You don’t know what to do. You’re not sure if this relationship can change. You’re also at the end of your rope because you’ve tried everything.

I’ve been there and I promise, lasting change is possible.

my promise...

through working together, you'll experience more...

  • Confidence: Your needs and desires are important. What would your relationship look like if you knew that and could communicate them clearly and with conviction?

  • Authenticity: You can show up as you and speak your truth without being hurtful. And by being honest, you’ll create a dynamic that works for both of you.

  • Peace of Mind: Because you’re living in alignment with your values and expressing yourself, getting your relationship back on track to a place that is rooted in mutual respect and connection.

  • Equity: A supportive relationship that celebrates your individuality– not one that forces you both into harmful gender norms and specific roles to keep the peace.

  • Understanding: You know what’s working and what’s not so you can spot these gaps, developing tangible tools to solve them and shift the dynamic.

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PRACTICAL INSIGHTS FOR NAVIGATING CHALLENGES IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

"Sharon shares such warmth and inspiration when she speaks! Her themes are so relevant. It’s refreshing to sit back and listen to real people talking about real things."

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Real change doesn’t happen from reading another book or scrolling another post.

It happens when you have the right tools, support, and accountability to finally do things differently.

Whether you’re showing up solo or with your partner, my coaching and community spaces are designed to help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship — where love and self-respect can actually coexist.

Free Training

From Tension to Teamwork

Stop managing your relationship alone — and start working like a team.

This one-time session helps couples get on the same page about what’s working, what needs attention, and how to share the mental, emotional, and logistical load of running a life together.

Whether you’ve been bottling things up or stuck in a cycle of arguments that go nowhere, the Partnership Check-In creates a neutral ground to reset the tone and collaborate without blame.

What You'll Learn

  • Where all that resentment is coming from...and what to do about it

  • The 3 essential shifts that move a relationship from coexisting to collaborating

  • Why "good communication" isn't enough and what's really missing

  • How to stop circling the same issues and create real change

Join live or watch the replay.

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Six Week group program for women

Respected & Connected Women’s Program

This small-group coaching community is for women who want to show up differently in their relationships without losing themselves.

You’ll get practical support, relational tools, and a circle of women who truly get it.

You'll Learn To

  • Speak up without blowing up

  • Navigate conflict with both compassion and clarity

  • Set boundaries that actually stick

Includes live group calls, an online community, and integration exercises between sessions.

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Private Coaching

Personalized support for individuals and couples ready to make lasting change

Whether you’re coming on your own or with your partner, private coaching gives you focused, high-impact guidance tailored to your situation.

The Relational Life framework is designed to create real, sustainable change by addressing what's really going on and helping couples remember they're on the same side.

You'll learn to

  • Understand and change the patterns keeping you stuck

  • Communicate in ways that build trust & connection, not tension

  • Reconnect after conflict with honesty and care

Download the Coaching Guide & Price List for full details.

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Define what success looks like, for you and your partnership.

Four Week Women's Intensive

Shift your relationship from your side of the street

For women doing the work — even if their partner isn’t participating in coaching.

If you’ve been holding the relationship together, overfunctioning, or feeling stuck between silence and resentment… this is for you.

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Identify what you want and need, without guilt

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Establish boundaries rooted in self-respect and clarity

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Learn to show up with strength, kindness, and confidence

04.

Get more of what you want without bulldozing your partner.

Includes:

  • Four weekly coaching sessions (75 min each)

  • Personalized tools + between-session support

  • A clear plan to shift the dynamic, with or without your partner’s participation

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Define what success looks like, for you and your partnership.

When you have the right tools and strategies to create a true partnership...

it will change everything.

TESTIMONIALS

You can create lasting change in your relationship

Rebuilding Our Relationship Through Better Communication

Sharon created a space where I could be honest without judgment and helped me see some gaps in how I was communicating. My husband and I have made huge steps toward rebuilding our relationship. I can express myself truthfully and respectfully, which has encouraged him to do the same.

Sharon’s thoughtful approach and practical tools made all the difference.

Sue, Indiana

Communicating with Confidence & Clarity

Sharon helped me see our struggles from a completely objective perspective. After working with her, I feel so much more confident in how and when to bring things up in a way that my husband can receive. I now feel equipped to communicate my needs without making him feel like he’s failing.

It’s been a game-changer for our relationship!

Kim, Utah

Improving Communication Before It Becomes a Problem

Initially, I thought coaching was only for couples in crisis, but I soon realized it’s about improving communication and addressing those subtle conflicts before they grow. Through Sharon’s guidance, I learned how to express my needs without creating tension, and my husband and I now communicate much better. The one-on-one coaching was key in applying the tools to our specific situation, and the impact has been huge. Our relationship is stronger, and I feel more confident in handling conflict.

Sarah, Michigan

Speaking Up Changed Everything—For Both of Us

Sharon’s insights have transformed how I communicate in my marriage and daily life. I used to stay quiet, afraid of saying the ‘wrong’ thing, but now I know that speaking up—even imperfectly—is better than staying silent. I’ve had more honest conversations with my husband, let go of the belief that I have to do everything, and watched him step up in ways I never expected. It’s been life-changing to realize he’s capable and willing—I just had to stop over-functioning. I only wish more women knew they don’t have to hold everything together alone!

Maegan, Utah

If you’re ready to stop repeating the same cycles and start building a relationship that truly supports you—I’m here to help.

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