Episode 147

Helping Men Understand Changing Needs & Expectations in Modern Relationships with Kristal DeSantis

October 22, 20242 min read

Men…do you know what your partner needs to feel safe & provided for in today’s relationships? Because it has changed.

Kristal DeSantis is a marriage and family therapist who specializes in men’s issues. She’s the author of the book Strong: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man. And she’s on the podcast today to talk about some of the ideas and concepts she’s learned from working with men and helping them navigate intimate relationships.

Topics discussed:

  • How expectations for intimate relationship have changed

  • What do women mean when they say they want a partner instead of a provider?

  • Why traditional therapy has not adequately addressed men’s issues

  • Specific skills for creating safety in today’s relationships

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About Kristal DeSantis

Kristal DeSantis is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Austin, Texas, known for her expertise in relationships, trauma work, and sex therapy.

With a focus on supporting first responder couples and addressing men's issues, Kristal offers a unique therapeutic approach rooted in understanding male psychology and the challenges faced by men in contemporary society.

Her development of The STRONG model of Relational Therapy, which blends trauma-informed and attachment-based methods, has earned her a reputation as a leading authority in the domain. Her recent book, "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," offers practical guidance for navigating contemporary relationships.

Kristal's dedication to advancing men's mental health advocacy extends beyond her clinical practice. As a trainer, consultant, author, and public speaker, she actively promotes awareness and education on the importance of men's mental health and wellness as well as the impact of trauma on relationships.

Kristal's Book

Learn more about the challenges facing the modern man in our current society and how the modern couple can create a STRONG, healthy relationship by getting the book STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.

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