Episode 143

Redefining Relationship Dynamics: A conversation with Bruce Chalmer & Judy Alexander

September 24, 20241 min read

Hear Sharon on the other end of the mic in this conversation with hosts of the Couples Therapy in Seven Words podcast.

Topics Discussed:

  • Sharon’s personal journey navigating cultural expectations, pursuing a career in engineering, and advocating for a more equitable relationship

  • Navigating gender role conflicts

  • Advocating for yourself by “calling in” instead of “calling out”

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About Bruce Chalmer

Dr. Bruce Chalmer is a psychologist in Vermont who has been working with couples for over thirty years. Through his teaching, consulting, writing, podcast, and videos about relationships, his ideas have helped thousands of couples and their therapists.

Dr. Chalmer is the author of three books: "Betrayal and Forgiveness: How to Navigate the Turmoil and Learn to Trust Again", published in 2024; "It's Not About Communication! Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy is Wrong", published in 2022; and "Reigniting the Spark: Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy, and How to Get It Back", published in 2020.

With his wife, educator Judy Alexander, Dr. Chalmer co-hosts the "Couples Therapy in Seven Words" podcast, available at https://ctin7.com.

His other notable interests include musical composition (especially on Jewish themes), choral singing and directing. His composition "Berakhot: A Midrash Cantata" was recorded in 2005. He has served in leadership positions in several Jewish communities in Vermont.

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